Stop Slut Shaming

Hey hoes!

While I was answering questions for my ten thousand views milestone post,
I was thinking about all the hate mail I've been getting.

I mean, it's not a whole lot. Most of the feedback I get is still positive,
but there are some very immature e-mails in there as well.

Obviously I can't please everyone and I've come to terms with that at a very early age.
But somehow, still, I wish we would all live in a united world where it wouldn't matter what
your sexuality is or how many people you've shared it with.

But hey, that's probably not gonna happen any time soon.
SO SCREW THEM. If you have feelings of shame, if you think that the amount of sexual
partners you've had or even how you dress, suddenly makes you less of a person and not worth
of respect from others or yourself - YOU ARE WRONG. You deserve to be treated like a human being.
Even if your legs open on a daily schedule and you happen to break a lot of hearts in the process. ;)

So far however I have only talked about the crap that us girls get from trying to live
our youths and enjoy our tight little bodies to the max, but what about guys?

It's a very common stereotype that guys are somehow cooler than girls when they score.
But, there are a few things that I've heard guys talk about as negative by-products of
sleeping around a lot.

The girls they happen to actually like, more than often think the guy can't be taken seriously. Ouch.
Guys are also often clueless of STD's and think that if the girl is on the pill or whatever,
that there is no way the girl could ever have a sexually transmittable disease.
Because we girls are so honest and innocent. Ouch!
And sometimes, even the guys feel like shit after waking up with a stranger.

And I actually think that we girls are a lot worse than guys when it comes to slut shaming.
We need to stop. It's just another form of bullying and we shouldn't accept it.

So it's not just the guys that need to cut us some slack. We all need to.
Girls, we have to stop giving other other girls shit for living their lives.
We have to stop thinking that guys can't change when they meet the right person or
that they'll cheat when an opportunity rises.

But in the end it all comes down to this: We all need to start respecting ourselves more.
If we do that, the words can't hurt us so badly. Because even if a majority of us changes,
there will always be people trying to bring us down for different reasons.

So next time when someone gets you down or you feel badly about yourself for losing control and
jumping some hottie's bones without marrying them first, just say FUCK IT.
You are awesome and deserve good things. And sex can be really  really  good. So enjoy and...

FUCK IT ALL.

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The 10 000 milestone Q&A

Sup peepers?

We finally reached the magical limit of 10 000 views!
I want to thank all of my readers by answering some of your questions.

I meant to do a Q&A a lot earlier, but wanted to get more questions in so I could
do a longer post. Thank you for all your questions. I'm also answering some hate mail,
hope you all enjoy this post as much as I enjoyed writing it.

So without further a due, here we go!

What's your name?

Obviously I'm not gonna give you guys my full name, but my first name is Niina.

If you were a magical creature, what would you be and why?

I would be a unicorn, since they're a symbol for freedom, beauty, honesty and tolerance.

How many guys have you had sex with?

I haven't done a full count, but I can only say that I have had my share and the number is above average.

What kind of TV shows do you watch?

I'm really into Gilmore Girls, Charmed, Supernatural, Game of Thrones, Glee, Sons of Anarchy,
Gossip Girl and American Dad. The list is longer but I think this is enough for now.

Favorite movie?

It's a tie between the Harry Potter series and the Dead Poets Society.

How did you come up with the theme for your blog?

I didn't really have to think about it that much. I really want women to feel
comfortable with their sexuality, with their bodies. And for men to stop judging us
based on our sexual behaviour or our history. The days of slut shaming should be behind us.

Are you single?

I'm in a fairly new relationship now.

Favorite sexual position?

I'm all for experimenting, but for me it's not so much about the positions.
For me the turn on is in the one that offers the most pleasure in the moment.
It varies with different people.

Have you ever been with a girl?

I have.

Are you blogging to become famous?

No. Obviously it's nice to have readers, because without you guys it's all for nothing.
Mostly I just want to share my views with other people and maybe offer some insight and
different views on the world.

When are you gonna start vlogging?

It's going to happen. I need better internet first. These past few years have been years of change.
Moving from place to place. A long relationship ending, a new one beginning.
Now I'm just getting back on my own two feet and moved to a nice apartment,
but I need to figure out my internet issues now.

What other interests you have besides blogging?

I like singing, gaming and artistic writing (mostly poems).

Are you still looking for more writers for your blog?

YES! If anyone is interested, let me know in the comment's section with your e-mail information,
or send me a message to anonymous92126@gmail.com.

Would you be interested in writing for other blogs?

Sure, as long as they also provide advertisement for my blog. It's a two-way street.

I want you.

That's not really a question.

Do you have any siblings?

No, I'm an only child.

Do your parents know about your blog? What do they think about it?

Yes they know. My dad isn't very excited about it. My mom is okay with it,
we have a very open relationship in general.

Do you want kids in the future?

I don't. But you never know what life brings along.

Are you a bimbo?

I don't think so. But I'm leaving it up to you to make the judgement.
Me and the people close to me seem to think I'm quite smart,
but obviously I can't please everyone and that's okay.

You're a fake!

And you're jealous.

You're going to hell.

I don't believe in a god that sends people to hell for enjoying the life he has given them.

Aren't you ashamed of yourself?

No. Are you ashamed of yourself?

Did your parents abuse you as a child? Is that why you're such a slut?

I had a very happy childhood. Safe to say my parents have had no effect on my sexual
endeavours what so ever. If you find my posts offensive in any way, please don't read them.

Have you ever had any STD's?

No. Be safe kids!

What method of birth control do you recommend?

Well, I've tried quite a few methods myself. And all I can say is, that no one method works.
We're all different. For some people it's hormonal birth control.
Pills for the people that remember to take them, implants or rings for those that don't.
And ALWAYS use a condom when in doubt.
Remember, when you're having sex with someone,
you're having sex with everyone they've ever slept with. Seriously.

Were you a fat child?

No. I'm not sure what triggered this question, but hope you got the answer you wanted.




That's it for the questions people. Hope you all got the answers you were looking for. ☺
Have a great summer everyone!



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Pokemon FANgirl emerges

Hello peepers!

I haven't really posted pictures of myself in this blog.
Those have been exclusively for my Tumblr and Twitter.

But I recently got this amazing onesie that I wanna show ya guys.

Isn't it ADORABLE?

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All about Appearances

Heyas!

I have a funny-serious topic for ya peeps today!

Okay so where I live, in Finland, there is a politician that
recently got caught sending messages of sexual nature on FB to young(er) women.

I mean the guy is about, oh I dunno, 50 or 60. So no wonder - scandal followed.
Now the poor man is on sick leave LOL from work! The media totally trashed him.

I don't know if it's me that's weird or the public's reaction.
I just can't really see what's so wrong with his actions. Can you?

Okay, Facebook has pretty easy ways to block people, close messaging windows etc.
So it's not like he could have actually been bothering those women that much with:
"I like your cleavage" or "Wanna have sex?" And I'm pretty sure that was pretty much the
nature of the messages he was sending the ladies. They could have just blocked him if they
weren't actually flattered by the compliments he was showing them.

Let me do some calculus... He's a man who likes beautiful women = correct,
added to the fact that messaging more than one woman is also more likely to result to
a roll in the hay, compared to messaging just one.

He is in politics so I'm not completely sure of his level of intelligence,
but to me that seems like the thing to do if you wanna fuck younger women,
which I'm sure plenty of mature gentlemen do. Seems like a smart move.
Nothing to be ashamed of!

He sounds like a fairly normal dude, with normal desires.
There to stand up for the normal people, perhaps...
I haven't really paid that much attention to his political views.
He might be a douche for all I know. But that's because it is completely beside the point.

He's not being charged with anything. He hasn't committed any crime while making those girls
aware of his agenda (to put his dirty old-man-penis inside of their pretty young things).
So why should he be publicly shunned for his actions that, let's be honest here guys, we all can understand?

WHY DO WE CARE?

He's just a man. Not even that famous. I mean, he is just there to read papers, sign them,
vote in our behalf and make bad decisions - like all politicians. And it's certainly not worth
this much attention. I was surprised that this thing got so much publicity. I don't get it.

And he wasn't doing anything we all haven't done before. HE WAS TRYING TO GET LAID. 
Ladies and gentlemen, news of the year: A guy caught trying to get some. Get your pitchfork.


And the age difference is really not that big of a deal. At least for me.
I've had sex with men almost twice my age and I honestly didn't notice a difference.
Age really doesn't put the K in kinky. It's all the other stuff.

Who are we to judge anyone that holds the spotlight?
Really, I don't see how they're any different from us.

Sometimes they drink and fornicate. Sometimes they perv around.
Sometimes they even get caught doing something that they actually get punished for
in the eyes of the law - still doesn't make them less human.

The only thing I feel like he should be embarrassed for is the fact
that after the scandal he went on sick leave. And it's still going. After weeks.
Doctor,  doctor!  The magazines are bullying me and even people on Twitter,  I can't possibly work!

Bitch please.

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SUP?

Heya peepers!

So while I'm waiting for men to show their interest towards my survey, I figured it was time
to write a personal post again. Kinda let ya guys know what's going on with me.

So, obviously I'm still gaming, that's a given. But the previous relationship took a little toll on
my spare time. We had such different interests and he was .. uhm.. very specific on what he
wanted to use his time on. So we pretty much always did what he wanted to do.

And yes, it is a  previous  relationship now. We broke it off about 3 months ago.
Just wasn't gonna work out. ☺ No hard feelings.

After the break-up I decided to try abstinence, at least 'till there was actually someone in my life that
I was interested in. Because dull one-night-stands just didn't seem worth my while anymore.

It was SUPER hard. I mean, wow, my clit was going cray-cray. After 3-4 weeks without sex,
I could feel it throbbing 24/7. Sexual frustration almost made me forsake my plans.
But somehow I managed to survive. Though I did go on a couple of dates, didn't even kiss anyone.
Not one make-out session took place in that period of time. And I gotta say, pretty damn proud of it!

It's not like I'm a prude that is against one-night-stands, no. I've had my fair share, believe me.
But maybe because I've already been down that road and lived a little, I knew I needed more this
time around. Casual sex had become so boring even before the last guy I dated.


And now I've found a guy that I like a lot. Hell, I'm crazy about him! andhispenis
We have so much in common and share the same kind of humor.
He makes me feel like a damn teenager. It's weird, but I like it!

And yeah. He's a little shy so I'm gonna keep the dirty to myself 'till I get his permission to

share some of it with you guys. BUT I can tell ya this much: IT IS AMAZEBALLS.

BTW 

if you're into online gaming you should download TERA Eu « HERE « and join me and

my friends on a crusade in Arcadia server. If you already play Tera or just decided to start, contact me through a parcel that you can send to my main Crudelis. ☺ Cya around!

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Back to Business

Heya peepers!

It sure has been a long-ass-time, hasn't it?
But I am back from my writing break! Awesome.

I needed a little time off to find my groove again,
because I kind of lost it when I started dating the guy
I told ya guys about in one of my most recent posts.

So I got an interesting topic request a while back from one of my readers
and it's about time I held my end of the deal and made it happen.

But for this post to become a reality I need your help.

If you're a guy  looking for love, or have already found it, please contact me
using Hit me up! on the right below the visitor counter.

I need to ask you a few very profound questions on this subject:

What is your ideal partner like and what are your deal breakers?

It doesn't matter whether you're straight, gay, bi or any of the known sexual variations;
I need to know what you're looking for in your potential partners and what kinf of things
will put you off for good. And, if you're already in a relationship, what are the things you
appreciate the most. Are there any things that have changed in your partner for good/worse since
you two started seeing each other? Anything you think needs to be improved?

You can answer anonymously. All the info I need from you is your age, nationality
and your relationship status.

And also, what are you currently doing to find love? Are you proactive or just waiting?
So please leave a comment for me through the Hit me up! box with your contact info and I
will get back to you ASAP. ☺



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