Stop Slut Shaming

Hey hoes!

While I was answering questions for my ten thousand views milestone post,
I was thinking about all the hate mail I've been getting.

I mean, it's not a whole lot. Most of the feedback I get is still positive,
but there are some very immature e-mails in there as well.

Obviously I can't please everyone and I've come to terms with that at a very early age.
But somehow, still, I wish we would all live in a united world where it wouldn't matter what
your sexuality is or how many people you've shared it with.

But hey, that's probably not gonna happen any time soon.
SO SCREW THEM. If you have feelings of shame, if you think that the amount of sexual
partners you've had or even how you dress, suddenly makes you less of a person and not worth
of respect from others or yourself - YOU ARE WRONG. You deserve to be treated like a human being.
Even if your legs open on a daily schedule and you happen to break a lot of hearts in the process. ;)

So far however I have only talked about the crap that us girls get from trying to live
our youths and enjoy our tight little bodies to the max, but what about guys?

It's a very common stereotype that guys are somehow cooler than girls when they score.
But, there are a few things that I've heard guys talk about as negative by-products of
sleeping around a lot.

The girls they happen to actually like, more than often think the guy can't be taken seriously. Ouch.
Guys are also often clueless of STD's and think that if the girl is on the pill or whatever,
that there is no way the girl could ever have a sexually transmittable disease.
Because we girls are so honest and innocent. Ouch!
And sometimes, even the guys feel like shit after waking up with a stranger.

And I actually think that we girls are a lot worse than guys when it comes to slut shaming.
We need to stop. It's just another form of bullying and we shouldn't accept it.

So it's not just the guys that need to cut us some slack. We all need to.
Girls, we have to stop giving other other girls shit for living their lives.
We have to stop thinking that guys can't change when they meet the right person or
that they'll cheat when an opportunity rises.

But in the end it all comes down to this: We all need to start respecting ourselves more.
If we do that, the words can't hurt us so badly. Because even if a majority of us changes,
there will always be people trying to bring us down for different reasons.

So next time when someone gets you down or you feel badly about yourself for losing control and
jumping some hottie's bones without marrying them first, just say FUCK IT.
You are awesome and deserve good things. And sex can be really  really  good. So enjoy and...

FUCK IT ALL.

© Anonymous92126

The 10 000 milestone Q&A

Sup peepers?

We finally reached the magical limit of 10 000 views!
I want to thank all of my readers by answering some of your questions.

I meant to do a Q&A a lot earlier, but wanted to get more questions in so I could
do a longer post. Thank you for all your questions. I'm also answering some hate mail,
hope you all enjoy this post as much as I enjoyed writing it.

So without further a due, here we go!

What's your name?

Obviously I'm not gonna give you guys my full name, but my first name is Niina.

If you were a magical creature, what would you be and why?

I would be a unicorn, since they're a symbol for freedom, beauty, honesty and tolerance.

How many guys have you had sex with?

I haven't done a full count, but I can only say that I have had my share and the number is above average.

What kind of TV shows do you watch?

I'm really into Gilmore Girls, Charmed, Supernatural, Game of Thrones, Glee, Sons of Anarchy,
Gossip Girl and American Dad. The list is longer but I think this is enough for now.

Favorite movie?

It's a tie between the Harry Potter series and the Dead Poets Society.

How did you come up with the theme for your blog?

I didn't really have to think about it that much. I really want women to feel
comfortable with their sexuality, with their bodies. And for men to stop judging us
based on our sexual behaviour or our history. The days of slut shaming should be behind us.

Are you single?

I'm in a fairly new relationship now.

Favorite sexual position?

I'm all for experimenting, but for me it's not so much about the positions.
For me the turn on is in the one that offers the most pleasure in the moment.
It varies with different people.

Have you ever been with a girl?

I have.

Are you blogging to become famous?

No. Obviously it's nice to have readers, because without you guys it's all for nothing.
Mostly I just want to share my views with other people and maybe offer some insight and
different views on the world.

When are you gonna start vlogging?

It's going to happen. I need better internet first. These past few years have been years of change.
Moving from place to place. A long relationship ending, a new one beginning.
Now I'm just getting back on my own two feet and moved to a nice apartment,
but I need to figure out my internet issues now.

What other interests you have besides blogging?

I like singing, gaming and artistic writing (mostly poems).

Are you still looking for more writers for your blog?

YES! If anyone is interested, let me know in the comment's section with your e-mail information,
or send me a message to anonymous92126@gmail.com.

Would you be interested in writing for other blogs?

Sure, as long as they also provide advertisement for my blog. It's a two-way street.

I want you.

That's not really a question.

Do you have any siblings?

No, I'm an only child.

Do your parents know about your blog? What do they think about it?

Yes they know. My dad isn't very excited about it. My mom is okay with it,
we have a very open relationship in general.

Do you want kids in the future?

I don't. But you never know what life brings along.

Are you a bimbo?

I don't think so. But I'm leaving it up to you to make the judgement.
Me and the people close to me seem to think I'm quite smart,
but obviously I can't please everyone and that's okay.

You're a fake!

And you're jealous.

You're going to hell.

I don't believe in a god that sends people to hell for enjoying the life he has given them.

Aren't you ashamed of yourself?

No. Are you ashamed of yourself?

Did your parents abuse you as a child? Is that why you're such a slut?

I had a very happy childhood. Safe to say my parents have had no effect on my sexual
endeavours what so ever. If you find my posts offensive in any way, please don't read them.

Have you ever had any STD's?

No. Be safe kids!

What method of birth control do you recommend?

Well, I've tried quite a few methods myself. And all I can say is, that no one method works.
We're all different. For some people it's hormonal birth control.
Pills for the people that remember to take them, implants or rings for those that don't.
And ALWAYS use a condom when in doubt.
Remember, when you're having sex with someone,
you're having sex with everyone they've ever slept with. Seriously.

Were you a fat child?

No. I'm not sure what triggered this question, but hope you got the answer you wanted.




That's it for the questions people. Hope you all got the answers you were looking for. ☺
Have a great summer everyone!



© Anonymous92126

Pokemon FANgirl emerges

Hello peepers!

I haven't really posted pictures of myself in this blog.
Those have been exclusively for my Tumblr and Twitter.

But I recently got this amazing onesie that I wanna show ya guys.

Isn't it ADORABLE?

© Anonymous92126

All about Appearances

Heyas!

I have a funny-serious topic for ya peeps today!

Okay so where I live, in Finland, there is a politician that
recently got caught sending messages of sexual nature on FB to young(er) women.

I mean the guy is about, oh I dunno, 50 or 60. So no wonder - scandal followed.
Now the poor man is on sick leave LOL from work! The media totally trashed him.

I don't know if it's me that's weird or the public's reaction.
I just can't really see what's so wrong with his actions. Can you?

Okay, Facebook has pretty easy ways to block people, close messaging windows etc.
So it's not like he could have actually been bothering those women that much with:
"I like your cleavage" or "Wanna have sex?" And I'm pretty sure that was pretty much the
nature of the messages he was sending the ladies. They could have just blocked him if they
weren't actually flattered by the compliments he was showing them.

Let me do some calculus... He's a man who likes beautiful women = correct,
added to the fact that messaging more than one woman is also more likely to result to
a roll in the hay, compared to messaging just one.

He is in politics so I'm not completely sure of his level of intelligence,
but to me that seems like the thing to do if you wanna fuck younger women,
which I'm sure plenty of mature gentlemen do. Seems like a smart move.
Nothing to be ashamed of!

He sounds like a fairly normal dude, with normal desires.
There to stand up for the normal people, perhaps...
I haven't really paid that much attention to his political views.
He might be a douche for all I know. But that's because it is completely beside the point.

He's not being charged with anything. He hasn't committed any crime while making those girls
aware of his agenda (to put his dirty old-man-penis inside of their pretty young things).
So why should he be publicly shunned for his actions that, let's be honest here guys, we all can understand?

WHY DO WE CARE?

He's just a man. Not even that famous. I mean, he is just there to read papers, sign them,
vote in our behalf and make bad decisions - like all politicians. And it's certainly not worth
this much attention. I was surprised that this thing got so much publicity. I don't get it.

And he wasn't doing anything we all haven't done before. HE WAS TRYING TO GET LAID. 
Ladies and gentlemen, news of the year: A guy caught trying to get some. Get your pitchfork.


And the age difference is really not that big of a deal. At least for me.
I've had sex with men almost twice my age and I honestly didn't notice a difference.
Age really doesn't put the K in kinky. It's all the other stuff.

Who are we to judge anyone that holds the spotlight?
Really, I don't see how they're any different from us.

Sometimes they drink and fornicate. Sometimes they perv around.
Sometimes they even get caught doing something that they actually get punished for
in the eyes of the law - still doesn't make them less human.

The only thing I feel like he should be embarrassed for is the fact
that after the scandal he went on sick leave. And it's still going. After weeks.
Doctor,  doctor!  The magazines are bullying me and even people on Twitter,  I can't possibly work!

Bitch please.

© Anonymous92126

SUP?

Heya peepers!

So while I'm waiting for men to show their interest towards my survey, I figured it was time
to write a personal post again. Kinda let ya guys know what's going on with me.

So, obviously I'm still gaming, that's a given. But the previous relationship took a little toll on
my spare time. We had such different interests and he was .. uhm.. very specific on what he
wanted to use his time on. So we pretty much always did what he wanted to do.

And yes, it is a  previous  relationship now. We broke it off about 3 months ago.
Just wasn't gonna work out. ☺ No hard feelings.

After the break-up I decided to try abstinence, at least 'till there was actually someone in my life that
I was interested in. Because dull one-night-stands just didn't seem worth my while anymore.

It was SUPER hard. I mean, wow, my clit was going cray-cray. After 3-4 weeks without sex,
I could feel it throbbing 24/7. Sexual frustration almost made me forsake my plans.
But somehow I managed to survive. Though I did go on a couple of dates, didn't even kiss anyone.
Not one make-out session took place in that period of time. And I gotta say, pretty damn proud of it!

It's not like I'm a prude that is against one-night-stands, no. I've had my fair share, believe me.
But maybe because I've already been down that road and lived a little, I knew I needed more this
time around. Casual sex had become so boring even before the last guy I dated.


And now I've found a guy that I like a lot. Hell, I'm crazy about him! andhispenis
We have so much in common and share the same kind of humor.
He makes me feel like a damn teenager. It's weird, but I like it!

And yeah. He's a little shy so I'm gonna keep the dirty to myself 'till I get his permission to

share some of it with you guys. BUT I can tell ya this much: IT IS AMAZEBALLS.

BTW 

if you're into online gaming you should download TERA Eu « HERE « and join me and

my friends on a crusade in Arcadia server. If you already play Tera or just decided to start, contact me through a parcel that you can send to my main Crudelis. ☺ Cya around!

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Back to Business

Heya peepers!

It sure has been a long-ass-time, hasn't it?
But I am back from my writing break! Awesome.

I needed a little time off to find my groove again,
because I kind of lost it when I started dating the guy
I told ya guys about in one of my most recent posts.

So I got an interesting topic request a while back from one of my readers
and it's about time I held my end of the deal and made it happen.

But for this post to become a reality I need your help.

If you're a guy  looking for love, or have already found it, please contact me
using Hit me up! on the right below the visitor counter.

I need to ask you a few very profound questions on this subject:

What is your ideal partner like and what are your deal breakers?

It doesn't matter whether you're straight, gay, bi or any of the known sexual variations;
I need to know what you're looking for in your potential partners and what kinf of things
will put you off for good. And, if you're already in a relationship, what are the things you
appreciate the most. Are there any things that have changed in your partner for good/worse since
you two started seeing each other? Anything you think needs to be improved?

You can answer anonymously. All the info I need from you is your age, nationality
and your relationship status.

And also, what are you currently doing to find love? Are you proactive or just waiting?
So please leave a comment for me through the Hit me up! box with your contact info and I
will get back to you ASAP. ☺



© Anonymous92126

Submission

A pretty little plaything,
never questioning your will,

finally rebels,
gets a mark on her skin.

Compelled to lose control,
obey your every whim,

forced to feel ashamed,
tear falls from cheek to chin.


A pretty little plaything
once again surrenders,

do what you do best
and let the game begin.


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Wanted!

Dear readers!

I have thought long and hard and I want to expand Sexclusive! to be a team of writers!
That is, if I can find someone good enough. Are you up for the challenge?

Look on the right at the Hit me up -box and send me an e-mail if you're interested!



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Hit me up!

Dear readers,
I've been doing some posts that have required your assistance.

I rather like keeping the gender ratio in my surveys even and I always end up getting more
male participants, so I'm now sending an S.O.S to all you lovely ladies that read my blog:

You can use the Hit me up -gadget on the right OR
Go to my About.me page and send me a message if you would like to take part!
I will be able to answer directly to your e-mail address whenever I have a new post that
needs YOUR VOICE in it. Even then, you can can choose not to answer some questions,
or even to not take part at all!
Contacting me will give me the option to inform you of any new surveys coming up,
so if you like the posts with reader Q&A's, hit me up!

And HUGE thanks for every single one of you that has offered their opinions, ♥ U!


xoxo,
© Anonymous92126

Time to think modern

HOY!

In this world we're constantly surrounded by images and ideals
created by the media and the people around us.
So often, that it's sometimes hard to form our own independent first impressions and opinions.
For some people it seems to be completely impossible.

Stereotypes are alive and well in today's society,
even though we're struggling to rid ourselves from judgement.
One of my readers wanted me to write a post about sexual stereotypes, and obviously I obliged.

And since I'm only one person and stereotypes come in all shapes and forms,
and possibly vary between genders, I had 5 men and 5 women answer the same questions.
The answers are shown by [men] & (women).
And I also added my commentary after each question!


Q & A about SEXUAL STEREOTYPES

1. Are men sexually more active than women?

• No, I think gender has no effect. [4](4)
• Yes. (1)
• No, I think women are sexually more active than men. [1]

ME: I don't think gender matters at all.

2. Do women watch porn?

• Yes. [3](2)
• Yes, but not as much as men. [2](3)

ME: I think most women watch porn. I know women that do not watch porn or at least don't admit to it.

3. Who has the biggest sexual appetite: brunettes, red heads or blondes?

• Blondes. (1)
• Red heads. [1]
• Hair colour doesn't reflect into ones sexuality. [4](4)

ME: I've never seen a difference in behavior due to hair colour, but I know some people swear
that red heads are the most wild and blondes are the easiest to charm into bed. I call BS.

4. Why is it more acceptable for men to have multiple sex partners?

• It don't see a difference, but I think it's because...
  - of men/women who think this way haven't been taught to respect women. [1]
  - of porn and movies. [2](1)
  - of religion. (2)
  - of expectations: people expect women to be more rational about sex/
    people expect women to only have sex with people they have a romantic interest towards. (2)
• I don't know. [2]

ME: I don't know many people that still think like this, or any?
But I have heard rumors being spread, so obviously this way of thinking still stands.
I think the main reason is that people LOVE to judge others and gossip.
And also just, that expectations are hard to change.
In the past the virginity of a girl was seen as something that adds to their value as a future spouse
and is still seen as such in some regions of the world.

5. What do you think is the most common sexual stereotype?

• If men have many sexual partners, it adds positively to their image
  where as women who have a high amount of sexual partners are considered to be slutty. [1](1)
• That gay men are always feminine. [1]
• Once a cheater, always a cheater. (1)
• Heterosexual women are more likely to experiment with the same gender than hetero men. (1)
• You can tell what a person's sexual orientation is based on their looks. (1)
• Men are always ready to have sex. [2]
• If a woman doesn't moan it means they don't enjoy sex. (1)
• The nice and quiet girls are the wildest in bed. [1]

ME: I would also have to go with "Men are always ready to have sex."
    Because I know some men have a hard time admitting they're not always in the mood.
    Among us women the idea of men always being horny is also very deeply imprinted.



We've now seen all the answers and the gender ratio. Any surprises?
Comment below!

Also feel free to suggest new topic ideas, I will try my best to make them happen!


© Anonymous92126

Counter Strike

Well, it so happened, that my hit counters went into a strike AGAIN.
Happens every few thousand hits. So, I went ahead and got me some new fancy counters!
And also renamed them more distinctively.

We're closing in on the big 10.000 on the Visitor counter and we'll do something magnificent
then, like, maybe a photo shoot on how I live my life behind the screen? Any thoughts?

Feel free to suggest anything!

xoxo
© Anonymous92126

A highly recommended BF

Heya guys!

I know it's been a while again, been super busy.
And super lazy at the same time. It happens.

How have you all been?


I've been great!
So much has happened again, not sure where to begin.


Well, I started studying again, being productive about my future,
which is good. Finally moved too.


And I started dating this amazing guy.
That's right, this little piggy just left the market!

Dirty details? Hmm. Not sure he wants everyone to know, but okay!
He's FUNNY. Uhhuh. Good looking too. And clever.

AND he comes highly recommended. No, not HOW YOU THINK, you perverts!

He used to work in the same town as my aunt and just yesterday she was talking
to the city-executive-mayor-person-guy(?!) and she told him that her niece is..
(what should we call him? His name starts with a J, so let's go with that..)
.. dating J and the city-executive-mayor-person-guy(?!) told her to tell me, to NEVER,
in whatever the situation is, let go of this amazing, intelligent, hardworking, honest
(and the list goes on and on..) man.

So as you see, he really does come highly, HIGHLY recommended. ☺
He also has fairly good taste in food, he's a great cook and he can make a pretty badass cheese cake.

JACKPOT! ♥

( PS.  The   s e x   is great..  shhhh ... )



Then onto other things.
I'm in the hospital because I have contracted the puumala virus, PUUV,
which is a species of hantavirus. It's a virus that spreads by the feces of bank voles.
The excrement turns into dust after it dries and once you inhale it you can catch the virus.
It can't be transmitted from human to human. The virus was first found in Finland but there have been
cases elsewhere in Northern Europe as well. Check the Wiki page for more info!

I got in here yesterday, after 5 days of almost 40 °C fever (equal to 104 °F).
The blood test for the virus came back positive and soon after they assigned me a room.

Now the fever has gone down a bit, but I still feel tired all the time.
Hopefully I'll get out soon.

My granny died and I'd really like to be there for my dad and the rest of my relatives to help them
with the funeral arrangements. They want me to write something to say at the reception.



Well that's it for the news flash.

Next piece I'm writing is about sexual stereotypes, 
if you want, you can comment below about any that come to mind! 

Thank you and cya soon!

/Edit 10:53 - Just got news that I get to go home if I promise to drink enough or go have an iv fix at the ER if I feel dehydrated. Blood tests again on Thursday, but at least until then my arms are safe!
SO HAPPY! ☻

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Just press PLAY ♫

Hello again! 

Posting for the third day in a row now.
I have so much to write about after my break.

I got another topic request recently from one of my friends
and it's something I haven't even thought of writing about.

Music and sex.

Some people swear that music sets the mood. And that there is some music that is
almost made for the sole purpose of making love.

This is a subject that I haven't really ever thought about.
I've had sex while music is playing I'm sure. I've also had sex while the tv was on.

But I just concentrate so much on the other person, that everything surrounding
me just becomes a blur. Music, the sounds of the cars driving by the house,
distant dogs barking.. You name it.

Some people even say, that when the music is right, the rhythm is right.
Please, can I just say: WHAAAAA?

I'm sure you can adapt to the rhythm of the music while you're doing the dirty,
but isn't it boring to stay in the same tempo all the time?

It's true that sometimes two people can have some trouble finding the same page
while they're in bed, but that's just natural. It should be fine with some practice.

Personally, I think the best background noise is nothing more than birds chirping,
rain blasting into the window or just silence.

I think breathing, moaning and laughter, even talking go better with sex than music.
But people are different and I can understand how music may be a requirement
for getting into the moment and blocking everything else out.

But the best sex I've ever had, has been in complete silence, when you can feel and hear the
other persons heart beat. Their breathing. The little moans that slip from the tongue.

When you can hear the sound of kissing. And all the other, maybe not so flattering sounds,
that the human bodies make when they're intertwined. For me it's all part of it.

I think it brings two people, even strangers into a zone where everything about them is acceptable.
And this gets us a little off the rails, but that also applies to lighting.

I do not understand people that can't have sex with lights on.
Isn't it nice to be able to see what the other person looks like? Their eye color, the way that
a drop of sweat is dripping from their forehead, down the eyebrow onto their cheekbones and all the
way down to their chin? I think it's sexy. I think it's primitive, sensual. It's just HOT.

Okay back to the subject, whew, got a little carried away there...


Aaaaanyway.
Now that I am writing about this, I'm feeling slight pressure to make a TOP 5 list of songs
for getting it on. I think I owe that to you - my dear readers.

So here we go, click the song title to get to the Youtube link if you're not familiar with them.

1. Kazy - I need you tonight

- Sex is just oozing out of this song in every way imaginable.

2. Placebo - Space monkey

- The music is just so freaking sexy! And the way Brian Molko sings it.. drool.

3. Nine Inch Nails - Closer

- "I want to fuck you like an animal."

4. Madonna - Justify my love

- No need to explain, I hope.

5. Marvin Gaye - Let's get it on

- Okay this is just a must have on this list! It's fun, relaxed and a classic.


That was easier than I thought, Although, I'd rather call them foreplay songs,
since once the act itself begins, I don't hear the music anyways. But, whatever works!


Now I'm curious, what would be your TOP 5 list?
Comment below!


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My way

Hello everyone.


Today I'm not going to write as cheerfully and casually as usual.
I have something on my mind and I'd like to share it with you guys.

I heard a statement, that people who live selfishly, live a longer and
more importantly - a happier life.

So I started thinking how that could in any way be possible.
Aren't selfish people usually lonely? Doesn't loneliness make you sad?

After a while of pondering on the subject I forced myself out of the box and
soon realized that there are positive ways to be selfish. It may not be a bad thing.


I think it is wonderful that people take joy in helping others.
Caring is an incredible thing. But can't it also be done for selfish reasons?

Isn't everything we do, done from a subjective angle?
I think the answer to that question is a definite YES.

Surely we can never fully understand the need of others.
Or their wants and dreams in life. We can only see things from our perspective.

What some people see as selfishness, others would consider a totally selfless act.

And don't we also want to feel good about ourselves?
Feel like for once we have done the right thing, independent from our own needs.

I know I enjoy the feeling of giving. Helping, being needed.

I also want to feel like the future of the planet,
the world that surrounds us, is secured and also MY FUTURE.

All of us have our own reasons for doing the things we do - the good and the bad.
We don't do it because someone out there is guiding us to the right direction.

There is no right direction.
Only a subjective view of what is best for survival and happiness.


Even if we do something that we don't enjoy, for the happiness of the people around us,
it can't truly be considered selfless. We hate seeing other people miserable.

Think about it, how many people researching a cure for cancer, have lost someone
dear to them to the disease? And how many of them has that been an inspiration to?

I don't know for sure, but I would guess, many.
It doesn't take away the value of it, those people get paid to do an important job.
And it's even better that they are inspired to do it.

Same goes with pretty much everything, we need to have a reason.
Without any drive, we would accomplish nothing. And never achieve greatness.

They say lazy people have been responsible for many great inventions.
And I second that theory. Selfishness is not something to be seen in a negative light.


Of course, like with everything else, moderation is key.
People that have no consideration for other beings or that use totally
disrespectful ways to get what they want aren't just selfish.

They are narcissistic. They throw off the balance that makes it work.
The magic of it all are people who do things for others for selfish reasons,
GOOD things.

They make the world better, for good reasons, for themselves too.
They thrive to be happy, because they think they deserve it, but have a healthy look on life.
They understand that to be truly happy, you need to be surrounded by happy people and love.

Talking about love, among humans, there is no selfless love.
It is never unconditional. There are always expectations, hopes and dreams.
But it is forgiving and makes room for mistakes.

Love gives chances to try again if you fucked up.
But only to a certain limit. Love is selfish and it should be selfish.

Love makes people grow. It makes people want to be more than they are
and it challenges people that surround you, to be more than what they are.

"Selfish people live a longer - happier life."

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Toys VS. Boys

HI PEEPS!

It's time for another sequel!
We'll continue with the theme of sex toys and their use,
like we did on Don't toy with me.

One of my readers brought to my attention that some peeps are a little
scared of sex toys. Well, at least concerned that they will lead
to impossible standards and maybe even some day replace sex.

Don't get me wrong, solo sex is SEX. But there is a vast difference
between using your hand or toys compared to sexual encounters with other people.

How 'bout we look at some facts and then make our conclusions?

TOYS VS. BOYS - The female perspective

How do they feel?

Toys:   They feel like plastic. No pulse, no warmth
             (if not considering overheating the vibrator).
             The vibrations are nice, but for me, no toy will ever beat my own fingers.
             And some men are quite handy too!

Boys:   They feel, hard, throbbing, exciting and hot.
             The movement is different and when you're not doing it yourself it may surprise,
             either in a good way or... well, let's just say too deep is too deep.

(Toys 0 - Boys 1)

How do they taste?

Toys:   Tastes like.. nothing? Or then they taste like pussy.
             If I preferred pussy juices over precum I'd just fuck women instead.

Boys:   After a good scrub they taste divine! And precum is such a sensual and primitive flavor.                              Awesome!
             But yeah, a dick that's been sweating in the pants for a day or two - NO THANK YOU.
             Go wash it first and then we can get to business.

BTW!   I have never tried playing with flavored lube, have you?

(Toys 0 - Boys 2)

Talking dirty / reacting to touch, sounds?

Toys:   Well, they don't talk. At least my toys so far have been quite mute.

Boys:   Some men are the silent type, but at least you can hear them breathing.
              Some on the other hand make such sexy sounds when they're close that it's more
              of a turn on than the touching itself. Communication is just much better with
              a human being than an inanimate object. A definite win for the boys.

(Toys 0 - Boys 3)

After sex cuddling, high fives, conversations and laughing?

Toys:   Not gonna happen.

Boys:   Cuddling = great. High fives = great. Conversations = awesome.
             An afterglow laughter while you're all relaxed, still inside of each other?
             PRICELESS.

Another win for the boys.

(Toys 0 - Boys 4)


Okay, I think it's pretty useless to keep this going any further, right?
No toy can ever replace real human contact. There is much more to sex than just
the size, pressure or the general physical feel.
Toys suck at foreplay, they do not react to the way YOU feel to them,
you always know what they're gonna do next and there is no after-sex communication either
- you just have to go wash it with soap and hide it in your underwear drawer.


Obviously I don't have a dick and can't know how men feel about this, but I would
imagine that it is pretty much the same. Even if masturbation is a great thing,
you will still start missing having another person to experiment with, live out
your fantasies with and all the other things that come with human communication.

To all the men out there who are concerned about women having huge dildos
or super powerful vibrators: STOP WORRYING.

You can still use vibrators while having sex,
maybe get a vibrating penis ring and double the pleasure?

And the dildos just aren't that much fun to begin with. Size does matter,
but there are many things that we prefer over a huge dong!


When I think about the future and what kind of kinky, super awesome toys or
wonderful apps and gadgets it may hold for us, I'm more excited than scared.

Sure, a super realistic sex simulator might be addicting to some, but there
will never be the feeling of success, conquest or love with them.

Maybe it will prevent some people from cheating and finally couples with different
sexual appetites will be happier and more content. I doubt it will ever throw
aside the need for love, affection or even the tingling feeling when you're
flirting with someone and getting a response.



Let's embrace toys as a part of our sex lives, use them together with our partners
too and show them, that there really isn't anything to be jealous about.

Let's play together!



PS. Any last questions for my Q & A that's coming out later next week?


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What is the music of life?

"Silence, my brother."

How long has it been since my last post to you, my dear readers?

WAY TOO LONG. I miss you guys.

The reason for my vacation is a valid one,

I got my new Fapmachine!

It's an Asus G750 JM. ♥

I love it.so.fucking.much.

So now that I have my new plaything, how have I been spending my precious time?
Take a wild guess...

Correct. 10 points for Gryffindor!

If you guessed GAMING, that is. I feel like such a geek.

But who the fuck cares! As long as I'm happy, right?

Well, my dad cares. We've had plenty of fights about games

and how much time I spend on them. Not to mention the money.

It's been resolved though. A hundred times or so.

While I was taking a break from blogging, I got an interesting

request for a topic: A sequel to my post Don't toy with me.

The topic was requested by JackSmile, just like the original post.

I think the comment was very interesting [you can find it HERE] 

and obviously I'm gonna satisfy my dear readers. No doubt about it.

It's about 6 am now and it's time for me to see sexy dreams,

so I will publish the sequel later today.

Adios! ☺

PS.   The Q&A video I promised on Twitter will be posted next week.

PPS. Have any topic requests? 

         And do you recognize where the question of the headline is from?

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Hot as hell

PEEPERS!!!

It's finally here: SUMMER!

In my country we have a long and a very cold winter,
but also a very hot summer, however short it may be.

There are some things that heat brings with it,
that just seem to always be included in the package.
Some are amazing things, some a little less so.

Summer is and always will be my favorite season
and I will tell you why.

First of all,
it's WARM and SUNNY.

No more HUGE winter coats and lots of layers,
that still don't help that much to be honest.
Winter doesn't agree with me, since I'm always cold no matter what I wear.

Instead I get to wear dresses and skirts and show a little skin.
I love the way the sun light embraces me and just feels like it's covering me with loving kisses.

I also don't mind terribly seeing guys with their shirts off.

Of course there is also a downside to all the skin that's showing.
In summer my sexuality is heightened. I'm sure this happens to a lot of people.

Everyone just seems to be happier, more outgoing and flirtatious.

And summer definitely brings the worst out in me on that front.
Sexual frustration sometimes leads to bad decisions.

Then there's the fact that you can drink outside and you don't
have to plan your every move based on if you will freeze to death outside or not.

You can just grab a few cold ones and go to the beach to enjoy the sun and the people.
It's fucking great.

But drinking and the fact that you're super horny all the time,
while being surrounded with people equally horny... and drunk?
Not too easy trying to keep your standards up
when you just want to dry hump every tanned, amazing body you see.

Heat brings on the HEAT.

Then if you already didn't know,
I have a thing for muscle cars, classic cars.. THE HOT RODS.
And when summer comes, the cars come out of hibernation and hit the streets.
Great, one more thing about summer to make me feel super sexual and excited.

Now I don't only want to ride every good looking guy that comes
along, but their cars as well!!!

Could picking me up have been made any easier?


Thank god there are some things that do slow me down a bit.
Like MOSQUITOES (and other bugs).

First they eat you alive, it hurts for a bit and starts to itch.
Then after you've scratched your legs to the point where you
don't want to show yourself in public anymore, they eat your arms too.
I hate bugs!

Then there is the fact that no matter what I do,
my apartment gathers a lot of heat during the morning to last all day long.

It wouldn't bother me that much,
but I have a dog and I just can't leave him alone in there.

And there aren't many places where I can bring him with.
So it's a bit of a bummer.

It's a good think I love him to death or otherwise I might get a little annoyed with all the arrangements I have to make.

But it's still awesome to be spending time outside with him,
taking long walks is much nicer during summer than it is in winter!


Now I think I will go take a long, cooling bath
and go enjoy the sun after I feel freshened up!

Maybe it will cool down my mind as well...

Now go put on your bikini, your shorts or whatever you feel like wearing,
show a little skin, meet up with your friends and be promiscuous all you want..
because IT'S SUMMERTIME!

© Anonymous92126

An odd thing

Hello peepers!


So I had a very interesting start to my week.
I was drinking with my buddies. Not a lot,
but like a few beers, hanging out & singing karaoke.

You know, the basic stuff you do at a bar.

When it was time to leave I took my bike
and was FINE for the time being.

But then something happened, I fucked up
and ended up in the ditch with the skin on my fingers FUCKING PEELED OFF.
I can tell you right now, that shit hurts.

Other than that I also bumped my head,
my left shoulder, both of my thighs, my right knee
and my jaw has a nasty wound and bruising on it too.

So OFC I look god damn sexy right now with all these bandages,
bruises and my eyes all wild from the very strong painkillers.

But I'm alive and this will not get in the way
of me blogging for you guys! ☺ ♥

So here I am, continuing the 10-day challenge.

So there are A LOT of weird things I do almost on a daily basis
and I'm only allowed to list 3. This is gonna be hard.

1. Teaching my dog English

So I don't know how WEIRD this is,
but I don't think it's normal to talk to your pet in a foreign language.
But I do it anyway.

I don't know if he can understand me, but since I think in English it feels very natural for me.
And who knows, maybe my dog is bilingual by now!

2. Being a mermaid 

Again, not too sure of what stage of FREAKY this is,
but I take my laptop with me to the bath.

I usually make a nice strong structure with something over the sink,
then put my lappy on it and just watch a movie while I bathe.

And it might be a long ass movie too.
Then I end up being in the water for like 2 hours straight.

Eventually the water will cool down and I will have to empty the
tub a little bit so I can refill it with warm water.

Sometimes I even make a little picnic out of my time in the bath
and bring snacks. Like tea and a bite to eat.

When I finally get out I look like a fucking raisin.

3. Using my coffee maker to brew tea

So this I do all day - every day!
Since I am hugely addicted to tea.

So instead of using like a GAZILLION tea bags per day,
I only use a few.

And how I manage to do that is with my coffee maker.
I put the tea bag in the pot and max out the water and TADDAAH!

9 fucking cups of tea.
With just 1 bag.

Incredible!
But I get weird looks from my guests every time I do it.




Okay so there we go.
I'm sure some of the weird things that I do might have been more
interesting, but these are the ones I do basically every day.

If you want to find out more, just send me more questions for my
upcoming Q&A!

Also comment below and tell me what weird stuff you do often
and maybe I won't feel so awkward about this.




PS. So I know I promised you guys something EXTRA SPECIAL
when we hit 1000 views and it's almost time to reveal what it will be.
Stay tuned this weekend to find out!


© Anonymous92126

Don't toy with me

HI GUYS! ☺

So I got a request a while back to do a list of
the most bizarre sex toys I have seen on the internet.

Thanks JackSmile for this awesome challenge!

And trust me, I have seen plenty!

Toys are awesome.
But some are just too over the top even for my taste.

I went back to explore some of the sites where I've seen
the creepiest of play things ever created.

AND HERE THEY ARE!

No 1.  Silicon Helmut the German Sheppard

Ever wondered what it would be like to have sex
with a male... wait for it...

DOG?  More specifically a German Sheppard.

I hope the answer is a big fat NO.
Good. Me either.

This is just wrong.
I mean, of course it's BETTER than actually doing it with a dog,
but it's still sick as fuck.

Ewww.

No 2. Artificial Hymen

So there seems to be a way to restore your virginity!
Hymenshop.com promises that with their product you can:

MARRY IN CONFIDENCE. NO NEEDLES - NO COSTLY OPERATION.

They also promise a free immediate delivery all over the world.

Seems legit.

And gross.
Fake blood in your v-jayjay - CREEPY.
OR appealing?

No 3. Realistic sex dolls.

Ever wanted to have sex to a small, silicone, anime character?

It's possible!
And expensive.

So if you're rich and extremely disturbed,
you go on ahead.

Just try not to forget real human contact.
Because the only thing creepier than a guy playing with dolls,
is a guy pretending that the doll is real and dragging it around.

YOU DON'T HAVE TO BUY IT DINNER FIRST,
that's the whole point of it!

Okay?
Just trust me on this one.

No 4. The Tentacle

Okay... so who wouldn't like to be raped by a giant tentacle-monster?

Say AYE!

I'm kind of torn about this one.
When I think about The Tentacle in use, it creeps me out,
but I find the idea of it funny and cool.

But don't think for a second that I would ever put it to use.
It looks incredibly uncomfortable.

No 5. Bruce the Shark

Following up in the footsteps of the previous monstrosity
is Bruce the Shark.

I've seen Jaws, but not once did I pause it to wonder
if the great white had multiple penises.

Definitely news to me.
This one too looks unusable in my eyes,
I just don't know how that would ever slide in.

No 6.  Hotdoll

Okay so dogs are said to be man's best friends.
I would second that opinion.

As a dog person I think this would be the perfect end
to the list of the most bizarre sex toys I have ever seen.

Not all sex toys are for people.
This one is a legitimate sex toy for canine use.

A poochie pounding doll...
It looks weird as fuck.

But I guess it might help some of the hyper active dogs out there...
Might not be the best ice breaker when you have guests over though.

" What's  that? "
" Uhm..  I  uhm..  It's  an..  uhm.. "

Yeah. Awkward.



So there we have it, 6 of the most bizarre sex toys I've ever come across the internet.
Hope you enjoyed this post and if you did, remember to share it with your friends!

You can also find me on Twitter @Anonymous92126.


PS. What was your favorite creepy-sex toy?
Comment below! And if you have seen something even MORE BIZARRE
let us know and include the link in your comment!

Also remember to send me some of your questions for the upcoming Q&A!


© Anonymous92126

Spark of spirituality

Hi guys!

So in today's post I really want to talk about
religion and all it stands for.

I can see how I do not necessarily come of as
a very religious person - and it's sort of true.

I did get a somewhat religious upbringing,
no cussing, some praying etc.
But nothing was ever forced on me and I got to have my own
thoughts about things.

We never really went to church as I was growing up,
except for weddings and funerals obviously.

So that world is completely unknown to me.
I also prefer it stays that way.

So I decided it was time to do some soul searching
because I'm thinking of resigning from the church.

I think the best way to explore this subject is to list some ideals
that the church represents and enforces onto people.
So I will write down my thoughts and reflect on them.

GOD LOVES EVERYBODY EQUALLY.
EXCEPT FOR: GAYS, PEOPLE THAT HAVE PREMARITAL SEX AND
PEOPLE THAT DRESS IN SKIMPY OUTFITS, GET TATTOOS OR
PIERCINGS (and the list just goes on and on)..

I think this is one of the biggest reasons
that I'm so against the church.

IF GOD were to love everyone equally,
then he would not discriminate or judge so harsly based on
things we do that are not harmful to others.

It's no secret that I have had sex out of marriage
and love masturbating.

To me SEX can optimally be a very spiritual experience.
So.. I should repent, make a purity promise OR go to hell?

Sorry. But no thanks.
I don't think there is anything impure about sex.
And by enforcing these ideals on your children,
you will eventually produce mentally unstable adults,
that are going to have problems with intimacy and
the sex that belongs in a healthy relationship - in and outside of marriage.

I also have a piercing.
And while I do consider my body to be my temple,
I don't see how that could ever be degrading me in any way.

I have great self value,
sex and the way I appear do not lower it.

YOU SHOULD RESPECT AND OBEY YOUR PARENTS
AND YOUR HUSBAND

The bible says, that you always have to respect your parents
and do as you are told.

The same will apply after the father gives away his daughter
to the husband, the female obeys the male.

That is just ridiculous.
OF COURSE you should value your family, but respect should
always be earned.

Loving someone an RESPECTING them and their authority,
are two very different things.

I for one love my parents very much.
They are a big part of my life, but I do not
agree with all of their beliefs and ideals.

They have had to earn my respect by acting
with a mutual respect for my thoughts and feelings.

They do not agree with all of my choices in life,
but they have accepted me for who I am.

IF I were some day to get married (DOUBT IT)
I would get married only to a person that I already respect,
and they would have to keep acting in a way that will not
diminish it, or it will be gone.

I also would not feel any need to OBEY my husband.
A healthy relationship works with mutual communication and trust.

Decisions are made as a couple, if they affect both lives.

RELIGIOUS PEOPLE ARE FAST TO JUDGE OTHERS

I think in the bible somewhere it says not to judge,
because that's what God is for. Not man.

And that there are no people without sin.

But then the people that are the most judgemental are
mainly religious. What a surprise.

They judge people based on what they're wearing,
how they talk, what their sexual orientation is,
what their background is, what kind of people they are friends with
and even on how they eat or what they drink.

Insane. Stop being SO DAMN up in MY BUSINESS.
And stop acting like you're above everyone else.

That annoys the shit out of me.

NUDITY AND SHOWING SKIN

This is it's own chapter.
What is so bad about wearing a skimpy outfit or seeing
other human beings NAKED.

As I recall, Adam & Eve were butt naked all the time.
There is something pure about a person accepting their body
as it is and also the bodies of others.

Some people even find spiritual uplift in being nude.
Freedom.

WARS AND CONVERTING OTHER PEOPLE

People should be able to believe in whatever the fuck they want.
Faith should come from inside, not from peer pressure.

I was taught to accept people and their beliefs.
But people have been killing each other,
going to war and forcefully converting each other for centuries.
I think it's okay to let people know what your beliefs are and not take part in some activities
that are against your faith. But that does not mean that you can be mean, discriminate, hurt,
kill, extort or in any other NEGATIVE way try to get them to accept your way of living.



Okay. So now we've covered A LOT of the points that
bother me about religion.

And I can safely say I do not believe in any god
that would be so judgemental that they'd send people
down in a flaming pit for an eternity for such little things.

And I do not want all the negativity that religion seems to
include in the package.


I still have some beliefs of my own,
that I do cherish and that I feel guide me through this life.

I am a spiritual person.

I believe that humans and other living creatures
have an energy or a soul, whatever you wish to call it,
that remains even after we part from our physical form.

Were it to happen in a dream, or after death.

I also have a moral compass that shows me the way.
I do not like cruelty, violence without any purpose,
pretentiousness or any of that crap that causes unnecessary pain to other people.

I believe that with a little bit of love and compassion
for others, we can make a huge difference.

Just be comfortable in your own skin, show that amazing smile,
and accept yourself and other people as they are.

That way you will form good and strong friendships
that will last you a lifetime.

And once you're done with your days here,
you will have created something pure and beautiful through all
the people that you have touched with your presence in their lives.

Do what gives YOU joy,
were it going to church every day,
partying with your friends,
sharing your bed with a lover or two,
dancing naked in the moonlight
OR JUST WHATEVER.

Enjoy life.




PS. Okay so I know we dipped deep
into a somewhat serious subject.
Some people are probably gonna hate me.
I can deal with that.
Some might agree. That's good too.

But now you know a little more about me
and can maybe relate more to what I write about.


Remember that you can follow me on Twitter @Anonymous92126
and also check out my Tumblr page. ☺


Lots of love
© Anonymous92126